Updated: Jan 17
"The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why."--Mark Twain
I remember reading this quote once that said "If people lived in a safe utopia, then the first thing they would do is try to burn it down, just so something interesting could happen". We now live in that era... but the chaos isn't necessarily outside, it's in our own minds
We are first generation of men without purpose, we have no mission we have no purpose, lack of purpose is the main reason causing loneliness in modern men, which later leads to high number of male suicides, Males make up 49% of the population but nearly 80% of suicides ,today we live in a very comfortable society ,and the comfort zone is biggest killer of masculine drive.
A masculine man is a goal driven animal .the first purpose of a man's life should be finding his purpose, Your mission is your priority. Pay attention to the things you are naturally drawn to. They are often connected to your path, passion and purpose in life. Have the courage to follow them, Unless you know your mission and have aligned your life to it, your core will feel empty, The man without a purpose is a weak man, our ancestors lived a purpose life ,they had their daily goal that kept them alive, their purpose was to protect their family, hunt for their family, they were way smarter and stronger than us, the modern day technology has made us weak ,
Men without a purpose are not only lost and drifting, they are also sexually impotent and incapable of putting things into motion. The core of your life is your purpose. Everything in your life, from your diet to your career, must be aligned with your purpose if you are to act with coherence and integrity in the world. If you know your purpose, your deepest desire, then the secret of success is to discipline your life so that you support your deepest purpose and minimize distractions and detours.
Your purpose should be so robust and so fulfilling that you don't have time to be lonely .Sometimes living your purpose in life pushes everyone away as you don’t have time for others non sense. To chase a higher purpose in life something more than yourself is often a very lonely path to take where only the strong will survive.
Success becomes easier to achieve when you focus on your passion/purpose and not on the external things most people focus on, it will show your true self and will make your wildest dreams come true. It is so easy to keep pushing forward when you focus on the right things. Happiness is easy to achieve when you so what you love every day and define success as focusing on your purpose and not on those long term goals which feel unattainable. The only real sin is not maximizing your God given potential.” God gave you these gifts and not respecting them by maximizing them, is the only real sin."
Lack of purpose is one of the main reasons for the rise of modern day weak men ,all other reasons will be discussed in next blog ,stay tuned
"Put your heart, mind, and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret of success." - Swami Sivananda